Tuesday, September 15, 2009

THIS WORLD WE SHARE

Do you have any transgendered friend or someone close to you? To what extent can you accept the person to share with your world?

I have no objection to any transgendered person. We can be friends indeed but I've found out how uneasy I felt when I was all alone in a room with her. I don't know...it's pretty hard to explain how I feel.

Share with me what you think about this.

67 comments:

  1. Well, I believe that God is the root to the rules of something is right or not. I can never really have a proper discussion without looking in the real life and situation that it happened with them. I'm not saying that it's not their fault. Even, if the person wanting to be transgender friends, or is confused about their Gender. They can turn to, or family members that have you not ever thought. Hence, they try can not just "accept who they are" because they have that chance to change because they has an individualism in their life.
    The present time, many people are questioning whether religion is even real. If religion is not true, then what about the many rules which are based on it.
    When I talking about transgender people, it does not necessarily just focus on people changing from one sex to another, but what about people who are born with both sex original, or certain parts or look like females/males on the outside but have the opposite sex organ? These people may not be mentally instable, but they decide to change their sexuality. Can you take away their chance of feeling normal?
    I mean it is not really our business to decide them into other's problems and lives. You can't really judge that person, or if changing genders is right or wrong unless you know the situation.
    In my opinion, I think also agree with homosexuals, they are nice person, make relationship with other people easily. I have lots of transgender friends, for instance, gay, lesbian, and tomboy. We can accept them exactly without insincerity. Thus, in my point of view, we try find, respect and understand them in the "right" decision to be made about changing sex.
    Whatever, I love them. I think alway they are not different from other people.Moreover,some case,they are more honest than real Male,or Female.


    Miss Feunglada Auttarapayom
    5031006243 section5

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  2. In my opinion, I think nobody can choose what thay want to born but they can chosse what they want to be. About the homosexual, I think our society can not accept them at all because they may have the outside personality different from normal people.

    I want to know why?

    Why why and why.. people in our society can not accept them?

    I have the best friend who is a transgendered. He study about faculty of pharmacy at Chaingmai Univercity. His father is a police man. His family can't accept about homosexual. When he stay at home, he hide his feeling, acting and figure. I think he may feel discomfiture inside his mind.

    I think that we can not adjust people from the ouside apperence. Therefore, people who are the homosexual can be our good friens in the world.

    ^^'


    Ms.Jirattikan Na lampang
    ID:5031006011
    Section:1

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  3. They can be our friends!! I have many friends like this.

    I don't care about sex and gender. I think everypeople are equal. Everypeople can do everythings that they want.

    i can accept to have friends like this but i think some people cannot accept. I have a friend who is transgendered. His parents cannot accept about this. I understand his parents that they hope thier child be a man because this family has 1 son and 2 daughter. They cannot accept until now.

    Good people or bad people do not depends on sex and gender. Everypeople can be good or bad if they want and i can be friend with good man, good woman, and good transgendered.


    Korawit Intarat
    5031006005 section 1

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  4. In an open social, everyone can do, express or require any thing that you want, so it means you has the human right to do any thing that you want under the law. Some one who want to be another gender, so they have the way of life to show the thing that you want, even though some group of people cannot accept them now.


    About transgendered, I think everyone, every gender or every age can be friends. If you are whoever but you are genuine for other people, so we can be friends. I have friends that are transgendered, they have identity of characteristic; self-confident and outstanding. They are a person like other, so I haven’t any reason to accept any transgendered to be my friends. Moreover, some transgendered also is genuine than some people who has only one gender. In term of globalization, the earth turn around every day, also human will get the new thing to learn more. When social changed, most people must change too. In the term of complex’s world, we must wear the mask to communicate to each other; you will not know their real habit. We can say that every day we know especially face’s friends but not heart. While the social is harmful, every thing also still bad especially human. I think we aren’t necessary to have a lot of friends, but just some friend that always stay with you when you face the problem. However male, female or transgendered, everyone can be friends, it is better to stay alone.

    When you associate with someone, you shouldn’t give all of heart to them because you should separate a part of heart to take care yourself. You should spend the time to insist the thing that you saw. While you are learning someone from the real situation, you will know the real spiritual of that person. Certainly, most people come from different place; they also are different heart.


    Thanks.



    Miss Nattaya Sae-lim
    ID: 5031006040
    Section: 01

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  5. I have many transgendered friends and I can say that some of them are my close friends. I’ve never felt weird with them because I trust them. I know that they won’t hurt me. On the other hand, In case of people who are confused with their gender. They are sometimes scared me. I have an experienced with some people who tried to fool me. He is confused who he is. He tries to flirt with me but at last he’s a gay (we’ve done).

    However, I’m not bias. Whoever they are, they are all human. Everyone has a bright side and dark side. I think, transgendered friend are the one who make the world colorful.

    Antiya Intarangsi
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  6. I don't have any transgendered friend. However, if I have that kind of friend, I don't think he/she is strange from us. No one can choose to what he/she wants to be.

    I would like to have a transgendered friend, I think that would be funny. They might have another characteristic which I have never met before.

    I love to have many friends. Everyone can be my friends.

    ok
    Thank you

    Miss Chomphunut Loetsakunwong
    5031006015 Section1

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  7. For me I have no transgendered friend.

    In fact if I can accept the fact, I maybe have friend like this...

    Someone can be a special person for someone.

    Then, I have special person in my life too...

    He is my old friend.

    They are my friend. I don't care about gender!!!

    In my world, we can understand with each other.

    I love to share my world with my friend without any reason.

    To be friend, I don' want reason.

    We just love for each other. It' s enough for me.


    Janejira Luangpantao

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  8. I have lot of friends including transgendered friend.

    In fact, there are two gender in the world
    but I think if they can choose, may be they don't want to be like what they are.

    It doesn't matter that what gender they are but what kind of person they are is more important.

    For me, I can share something that I think they can know, but if something that I don't want to share, I won't share with them even they aren't transgendered friends.


    ARUNPORN KARUNAWONG
    ID 5031006107
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  9. This world was born creatively. Naturally, all lives mostly are separated into two genders.

    But some may not be like that exactly. Many researches show that some kinds of animals have a homosexual behavior.

    Some researchers state that it is a result of natural process from the high population. As the same with human, it may be the same theory.

    For me, transgender people are ordinary people.

    These groups may be a guy who wants to be a girl or a girl who want to be a guy.

    I have some friends who are like that and they seem nothing different from others.

    In this globalization age, this topic is normal. They are free to be. They can choose to behave.

    In my opinion, people can do everything that they want if they do not make trouble to others.

    Most of my friends who are transgendered are active persons and really enjoyable.

    They have high ability for working, many skills and the most important; they are really good at English.

    My point is at present this, the transgender is normal. We should consider them without personal discrimination,

    and look at their work or their ability.

    MissPatcharawan Chuenchai
    ID: 4931006267
    Section: 03

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  10. For me, everyone can be my friend no matter what gender of them. If I want to find friends, I do not care that he/she is man, women, gay, or she/he is transgendered person. I think every gender have right equally.

    Nowadays, the third-gender persons are accepted in society. Even if they are gay, tom, or the person who is transgender, they can do everything that they want because they are human like normal gender person.

    Sometimes when I was in wherever and talked with my transgendered friends, I think I feel better than when I talked with some female or male friends. May be, when I talked with my transgendered friends, I feel I was talking with my male and female at the same time. This is the reason why I feel good if I talk with them. ^^

    However, we cannot judge goodness or badness of people by gender, but the important that can use to judge person is behavior. ^___^


    Kamolchanok Rommanarak
    ID: 5031006002 Section: 1

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  11. Yes, I have transgendered friends but just a few. I can share things with them but not all of my stuffs because I personally don't like telling people all I have in mind no matter how closer friends are to me.

    For my own point of view on homo people, it's exactly obvious that I don't have any negative thoughts on them unless they behave impolitely and inappropriately. A homo person is a person anyway but just has a taste on same-sex people. Homo people are surely ordinary and similar to other people; they can make mistakes, commit to any crime, and even feel miserable.

    To stay alone with a homo person at any place is not a scary thing as long as you don't have a feeling for him/her. However, it must be better to avoid staying together alone when a homo person falls for you!(Kidding!) Anyway, try not to be thoughtful because it ruins your health and causes you stress. (HA HA!)

    Name: Winai Saeliu
    ID: 5031006236
    Section: 05

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  13. I think it is interesting topic.
    Once time I ever had a friend who was transgender.
    I think he was cute and good at in everything
    both studying and creating.
    Although, his body is a male,
    in his mind he is a female like me.

    I am not interested in his or her gender
    but I am interested in his or her characteristic.
    I think the transgender can make me feel happy
    and don’t serious when I talk with him.

    Most transgender be chatty. When I have problems
    I can consult them in overtime. Then, they will have
    good suggestion for me. I can talk with them in every topic
    such as studying, loving, and so on. I feel good when I
    talk with them. I think, they sincere more than my other friends.

    I do not limit the gender if they are good person I allow them
    all the time. I believe that everyone can’t choose to born but
    they can choose to be. If everyone wants to be my friends
    I am glad to accept everyone both male, female, and transgender
    just a good person. I’m O.K.

    Name: Miss Kitiya Khamprem
    ID: 5031006213
    Sec: 05

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  14. Yes, I have many transgendered friends and someone close to me. In my opinion, I think it’s not curious to be a friend with them because they are a human like me.
    I don’t care about gender but one need only he/she must a good person.

    And the otherwise, the social is open wide for transgendered person both homosexual and bisexual. They can do everything like a general person and someone is sincere more than a normal gender.

    And a point of you that is a pretty hard to explain when stay alone with transgendered friend. I don’t know about your emotion like afraid or be shaken. If you try to control your feeling and not think over about it, may be you not have any problem to stay alone with her. Just think she is one friend of you which not different from other friends.

    About me, I confirm that I can stay and share my ideas with transgendered friends. I will be happy and I’m glad to accept them for my friend. Just one thing that person must understand in myself.


    Miss Jittraphorn Sornkheio
    ID: 5031006217
    Section: 05

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  15. In my opinion, at the past, Thai society could not accept transgender person. I do not know why, and at that time I cannot accept too because I saw many people hate transgender person. Then I thought it is bad thing. Now they can make society or almost people accept exactly about transgender person because their ability in good ways.

    I have my friends are transgender person. They are more intelligent than a man or a woman, their intelligence makes me surprise them such as dance show, creative thinking, and so on. I thought, I would like to research why a transgender person has intelligent than other person. Maybe they want to every people accept them from ability.

    When I talked with them I felt they are happy and funny all time. I think, they have good things that a man or woman does not have but I do not know what it is. I am happy and funny when I did some work with them. I feel they are wonderful person that the god creates for this word.



    Miss Kornkanok Nonthanum
    ID.5031006004 Section.1

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  16. I absolutely have many friends are the transgendered person.


    They perform their personalities well such as the relationship between friends and they always are friendly and chirpy.


    Moreover, they also make friends feel joyous and get laugh from them when we are together.


    Besides, I don’t think so with people who have the prejudice to them because you’ll see such the good things if you’re in their world.


    Everyone can be friend even though it has many things different.



    ,, Hathaitip Phanmetharit ,,*

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  17. Transgendered person?

    Umm,,,I do have lots of transgendered friends and cousins. In my opinion, all of them are quite good,, nope!! they are very good. They are like all other people in the world in terms of humanity.

    To frankly speak, I think they are the colour of the world because most of them make people around to be happy. I dont know why, but I do think like this.

    I can hang out with them, I can eat with them,and I can work with them.

    However, in every closeness, I think it should have some spaces or gaps between us. For some things or some situations, I think I can't let them in, even we are friends or cousins.

    It might be true that when we are alone in the room with the transgendered person, we will feel uneasy. I don't know why. So that why I think we should have some gaps.


    Athitaya Suwee ^^
    5031006115 Section:03

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  18. Yes, I have some of transgender friends.
    For me, everybody no matter what you gender can be my friend and can be sharing my world. If they have sincere, I will be trust them.
    I won’t look at gender but I look at their mind.

    Someone has ever told that “no one in the world is perfect.” I think it’s true because homosexual, bisexual, tomdy or lesbian don’t want to be someone who is disgusted from other people but they cannot choose to born. They have a heart like common people. Although some transgender will have bad behavior that we feel disgusting, it is not at all. It has good person in transgender.

    Actually, I am quite open-minded to transgender person. Sometimes I feel that have space between me and them. That might be feeling of you when you were alone with your transgender friends. Sometimes I feel that has wall between us. However, I think it is no problem for me and I can stay alone with transgender friends because I will be not serious, I just think they are my friend.

    The important thing, they must not pretend because I hate this kind of people no matter what gender they are.


    KUNANYA BANLUE
    ID: 5031006215
    SEC: 05

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  19. I think, every people can be "friends" not haggle in religion especially, in gender.

    Transgendered are not bad human. They can be our best friend. In my high school, I have a good friend. He is transgendered. He is frankly and kindness. We get a long well. He has more confidence than other people and everybody in my high school accepted his ability.

    Now, In my university, There are club for transgendered that called "Entertainment Club" or "Kra-Toy". This club established to control their behavior and give advice for them. It is help from senior to younger generation. This club made these transgendered to be happy and can use their life in this university with happiness.

    In this moment, a lot of organization emphasize on transgendered group because they can success with their job, tasks and their life.

    Man or woman is not important but the most important thing is you are a "good person" or not?



    Sasikarn Srinoraphan
    5031006504 Sec.05

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  20. Yes, I have many transgendered friends and one of them is my best friend. At first, I think that a transgendered should not be accepted because they are unlike other people. I really hate their reaction when I talk to them because they are so over-acting that I annoy. Now, I know that nobody’s perfect. They cannot choose what they want to be born, but they can choose what they want to be.....

    We can be friends…not only friend but a real best friend. I can share EVERYTHING with her without a hesitation. When she has a problem, I always be with her and listen to her. I think she is a boy and girl in the same time so I know what the guy wants and she also know what the woman wants. She color my world....in the past my world was boring but now she gives me a happiness, fulfilment to my world.

    ....Could I just say?

    Don't be afraid

    Don't feel uneasy

    when you stay in the room with THE TRANSGENDERED!!!

    (-_-a Kasama Sombatnun
    ID 5031006129
    Section 03

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  21. I never have any transgender and homosexual persons as my close friends I think I prefer to close with real female friends than homosexual or transgender friends Sometimes I think perhaps I’m a clumsy girl while Most of homosexual friend look like hot girls. Moreover, I feel trustfully if as I must stay alone with female friend.

    I have an experience about one homosexual friend since I was a high school girl, he was my friend. One day my female friend and I play like the general girls play, we play touch chests and run, for a while, the homosexual friend came to play with us. I was really confused, and didn’t know what I should do at this time. I didn’t hate him but you know what I mean, he still is a man. We still have space between us, but I empathize with him, I still play with him but attempt to run as fast as I can when he come to touch my chest. However, it doesn’t mean I hate homosexual or transgenders person. I also impress with homosexual and transgender persons because they smart and confident, I really jealous their talents that real women cannot do like them. In fact, I like one transgender person as my idol, her name is Poy Trichada. She is very beautiful. She makes many women jealous on her beauty, she also is a good girl, and she works like many women in entertainment field as well. So everybody has their own valuable if they are a good person and born to make this world has colorful. We can share this world together.


    Ms. Theeranan Sriphumin
    ID: 5031006034 Section 1

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  22. I have many transgendered friends. All of them are friendly and kindly. I think whatever they are, I can accept because I see their mind not their gender. No one can choose what they born to be so the most important things is their mind, their kindliness and their sincerely.

    For other transgendered people, I never heard the criminal news which the transgendered people is a murderer. It is possible but I never heard about it.

    Everyone have right to be or do everything which does not be illegal. Therefore, They have right to be whatever they want. Whatever they will be, they still be my friends.


    Phusacha Paladang
    5031006229
    Section: 5

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  23. Well, I can accept people who are transgender because many people around me are transgender! Many of my friends are transgender. Also, my brothers are transgender. Can you believe that?? Both my older brother and younger brother, they are transgender! I lived with them for 21 years. However, I really love them. ^^ When I first know that they are transgender, I was really shocked!! I didn’t know how to act to them. Then, I stopped and thought that however they are my brother. I love them so why can’t I accept the way they are. I like the way they talk, act, gossip, and play with me. Also, I have many friends which are transgender. One of my best friend is transgender. I met him when I first came to study at MFLU. He is very funny, friendly, and of course handsome! I think many people should ignore transgendered. This depends on individuals like. I think you shouldn’t have bias with them.






    Slin Tiyapongpitak
    ID: 5031006503
    Section: 5

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  24. Well! for me I don’t have any transgender friends but I have one best friend who I can consult with her in every problems.

    I feel release when I am talking with her. Whenever I have problems I always come to her because I know she is only one person who can make me forgot all stresses that I had.

    I feel happy at least I live in this world I have one person who always be with me and hear whatever I wish to say by not leave me alone.


    Norhayatee Awae
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  25. If I think about who is my transgendered friend, I would think of one of my friend from secondary school. My school is well known about there are lots of gays in the school. Back to that friend of mine, we have been good friend since the first day of school. We went hangout together and I shares everything to him. Although I know that he is a gay but still believe that he is a real boy. He acted like a nice boy. He loves to share and very good gentleman. I have not known his reason to transgendered. One time, while we were in grade 8, my friends had a dance competition. They practiced everyday after school and I usually hangout with them at dancing room. One evening other friends needed to find something to eat; only he and I were in that room. I felt really strange. I couldn’t even say a word. He is my best friend and I love him. I do not want him to be like that but he said that he couldn’t change. A few years ago I heard that he has already operated his sex to be woman. I have not seen him since after we graduated. I still don’t know if I see him again, how I will feel. Many people said it hard to change back to the real gender but I believe that we can. As we are human, God give us a perfect needed and why we do not satisfy with that. As much as they change, it will make you strange.

    See you tomorrow,

    Thaksinee Kaewsrimon
    4931006022

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  26. This topic is quite interesting so much for sharing my ideas.


    When I studied in high school, I have one transgender friend. He is a good person for me because he always helps me for do my homework and others. He is a good of imagination and creating especially showing and dancing.

    When I have some problem he is one of friends that help me for solve the problem. I always share my thinking with him.

    I can remember that when the school had an activity, I and my friend who is transgender friend live together all the night. It is really hard to explain my emotion when I stay alone with him. I think, he is not dangerous for live with. I feel comfortable because I think he is a female like me. His characteristic is really like female, for example the way how to wear and how to speak (voice).

    The important thing of transgender friend, he can give a new challenging and happiness for me.

    Every human being can not choose your life that is male and female. Gender is not important for judge that person good or not, it depend on what he/she do exactly.

    I can accept transgender friend because the thing that he did for me and help me is better than the gender.


    Lastly, the gender is not important to make friends. Everyone should accept transgender friend because he is a human like you. Don’t look down.


    Miss Jirawan Ruansit
    ID: 5031006218
    Section: 5

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  27. I have friends who are gay, but they do not transgender.

    In my opinion, I can accept them because although they are guy or homosexual, they are not a bad people. I think they are friendly and enjoyable. I know everybody do not want to be gay. We cannot choose to born, but we can choose to be.

    Mr.Narongsak Tongsakorn
    ID: 5031006023
    Sections 01

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  28. No, I don’t have any transgender friend.

    I think there is no extent for friends. There is no extent for friends. It is not important that who friends are. They might be girls, boys or gays. Friends are always friends. The world is the place that everyone can share and live together with peace.

    Mr. Ukhapol Bunluewong
    ID. 503 1006 106
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  29. I have many transgender friends. I accept to be their friend and I don't care about what are they. I don't know that why we should care about transgender people. What do they do something wrong? They just want to be other gender or opposite of their gender. In my opinion and my experience, I think that transgender people are good people when I be with my friends or talk with them, I feel funny. Therefore, everyone can be friends and think regardless about what are their gender. Even though many people don't like transgender people, but I still be there friend. Everyone in the world have the equal right, so they can be friend.



    Mr. Eakachai Lakthan
    ID: 5031006119
    Section 03

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  30. Oh teacher! I understand what you feel because I had ever felt like you. When I was study in high school, I felt uncomfortable anytime that I saw or confronted with the transgender person. I assume that feeling might be influenced from my intimates, they didn’t like a transgender. Of course, I always had straight gender friends.

    How did I feel about transgender person now? Well, my attitude was changed. Since I study in Mae Fah Luang, I found that many people around me are transgender, my teachers, friends, classmates, even my same code brother and sister; they are also transgender ( Ha Ha Ha, my code line is abnormal.).

    I didn’t confirm that every transgender are good because they are person like us. Love, hate, paint, they also have like normal gender. However, I suggest you to change your attitude about the transgender. Open you mind, you will see some good thing that about transgender that you never seen before. Again, please remember that when you change your attitude, your life changed.



    MissUraiwan Yopsab
    ID: 5031006207
    Section: 05

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  31. I've many transgender friends. All of them are good person even they have some action that make people to afraid them. Most of them are noise and have high confident. They are so brave to do the thing that we are feel embarrassed to do. Moreover most transgender person must try to fight with a social who think that they are hateful. I think that already make them feel bad and I don't want to increase the awful feeling to them. In fact, I don't like transgender people but I can be friend with them if they don't do any bad thing to me.

    That all about my opinion, judgment people from the things that they've done. Maybe even the thing that they be are bad, it does not mean they are bad person. That's it.

    Mr. Aphipon Tanhlong
    5031006103
    Section 3

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  32. I see your point.

    I think the discrimination against transgendered people comes from all sides. A gay man looks like a man, and a lesbian looks like a woman, so it's not immediately obvious. Therefore, they are a human like everyone but transgendered people feel that the gender. They were born with doesn't fit who they really are.

    I know, not everyone who know will think that being transgender is good.

    For me, transgerder or normal gender are my friends. They are the people that can do anything like everybody. The man or woman who transgender, I feel good for them. If you know them more and more, you will know they do not bad for everyone.


    PEMIGA TINNIKORN
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    SEC: 05

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  33. I can share anything that I want with person who I trusted.

    If I have to share with transgendered friends, I will decide on what kind of person they are.

    I mean, what is their habit. It doesn’t depend on what kind of gender.

    In fact, I don’t have transgendered friends. It is true that there are two sexes in the world.

    In my opinion, everyone cannot choose what sex they what to have, but they can decide what they life are going to be.


    Hasnee Maduerawae
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  34. I knew what is your feeling and your point that you what to show. :)

    In my opinion, I think transgendered person cannot choose to born but all of behavior that they got or express are pessess by their parents who take care of them. Thai society are not accept them too much but this kind of person always have a superiority complex which it make them to be valuable.

    However, sometimes when we close with them, we may feeling strange but if you try to open your mind I think it can solve your bad feeling and it is the way to give a chance for them ;)

    Name: Didtita Kijjaporn.
    ID: 5031006022
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  35. I have many transgenders friends. They are always straightforward and sincere to me. I think they are faithful more than real male or female friends because they always express what they think through their acting. One of my close transgenders friends, he Oops! she always dress like a woman but her figure is not like a woman. I keep asking her that don't you shy to wear this clothes because it is not suitable for you. She says that she is confident and doesn't make anyone in troubles. I think she is right!!

    Many people treat with transgenders like they are disgusting. They do not accept them to be their friends. I think it is not quite good. Everyone in the world are equal, although they are transgenders or straight.

    Have a nice weekend. :D

    Saowarod Chanka
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  36. I had sutied in a single school or ladies school. There has no boy in this school, so some girls are interested in the same sex.

    At first that I came in this school, I felt bad when I saw girls held a hand, hugged, or kissed a cheek of each other. However, many days, I could accept it.

    I had a friend who was transgender or we call tomboy. She was not dangerous, but friendly. She always helped other friends to do the hard thing because she thought she was a man.

    I think either males, females, or transgenders can choose to do the good thing, and choose to be the good people.

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  37. I had sutied in a single school or ladies school. There has no boy in this school, so some girls are interested in the same sex.

    At first that I came in this school, I felt bad when I saw girls held a hand, hugged, or kissed a cheek of each other. However, many days, I could accept it.

    I had a friend who was transgender or we call tomboy. She was not dangerous, but friendly. She always helped other friends to do the hard thing because she thought she was a man.

    I think either males, females, or transgenders can choose to do the good thing, and choose to be the good people.




    Supawan Intakeaw
    5031006097
    Section 03

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  38. Transgender is used to describe people whose gender identity did not relate with their real gender at birth. In our university, there are a lot of people who is transgender. All of them are very happy to be like that although it seems to be abnormal and unusual. Actually, our university always supports those people to be what they want. As we can see from the Miss Satellite Contest, most of those people have a chance to express their feeling and to show their abilities. I think those kind of people are very wonderful. They are confident, naughty, excellent and happy all the time. They can let people laugh, smile and happy as we can say that they can make the world more colorful. In my opinion, I think everybody should give them a chance to express their thought and mind because nobody wants to be like that.


    Suwannarat Radcharak
    5031006098
    Section 03

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  39. In our university, there are a lot of people who is the Transgender. In my opinion, this kind of gender is happy person in their life. If you spend time with time such as in your free time, studying in class, eating and etc, you will get wonderful all the time. You will laugh all the time.

    Last week, I had presentation in English for Business and Technology1. I had this gender in my group. He is a good student and high imagination. He created our Business plan for presentation. He can speak English very well. I think I got high point because of him.

    In this semester, I have written the argumentative essay; my topic is about the Transgender. “Same sex marriage should be accepted” is my work. I think these couple should be allowed because love is human nature. I mean everyone can love. Transgender is a one kind of gender that we cannot against love by gender.



    Miss Nattaya Buranaphol
    ID: 5031006025 Sec. 1

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  40. I was friends with a transgendered child, but didn't know until she became a he
    When we grew up I had no idea - she was a tomboy, but other than that she didn't seem any different. She was a great person and kind too. When I went looking for her on MySpace I couldn't find her, but she has a very distinctive last name and I found someone with a man's first name instead. I looked at their photos and it was obviously her, only a him.

    I wrote him a message and we talked... he had felt like a boy his whole life but just didn't tell anyone, and once he was 18 he began having surgeries to make himself right. He's been living as a man ever since and is so much happier.

    I think back now and she seemed depressed and sad and negative, and now I know why. He's the same wonderful person he always was, and the change made absolutely no difference to me.


    Chanjira Dapin
    ID: 5031006216 Sec:05

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  42. In my point of view transgendered is acceptable because he or she is also human. They have a right to decide themselves. In my life from single school, I used to see my tommy which is one kind of homosexual. I really agree to accept them because she really friendly to me. Sometimes, I think that she is the gentle man indeed. She also took care of many girl friends very well. At the same time,I homosexual in terms of man is also acceptable in my view. I am quite familiar with them because there are many homosexual in our university.

    Finally, I think we cannot judge their life from their gender. We should give a chance to them in terms of human right. Then I really agree to accept them. So I also open my mind to be their friends.


    Supapan Jongkhajonkiat
    ID: 5031006096 Sec: 03

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  43. Actually, I don't have transgendered friend. I have some gay or lesbian friends but they don't change their gender. Some are changed when they are in university. When I see him again, it is very surprised for me to see this change. One of my friend, who was boy, now asks me to find some gays for him. I'm quite upset about who he is now. For the lesbian friends, I think it is o.k., better than gay, because they don't offense me like the way gays do.

    I used to have a gay classmate. He really liked me but I really don't. He once tried to kiss me, really!!, I said "No" but he didn't stop so I kicked him and he felt down to the ground and cried like a bitch. I know I did the wrong thing but at that time I can't accept the way he treated me like this.

    Now, our social is wide-opened about the third gender or transgendered. I have to accept the way social goes. However, please don't offense me. I don't say I hate them but please don't make me hate them.


    Prat Malarat
    5031006046
    Section 1

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  44. Oh, I do not have friend that transgender. I think I can accept if my close friend has something change. I feels like you are also my friend. The thing that change is just your body not your mind.

    Many people think that transgender is weird but everyone do not want to be freak. they are everything like you but it is not in right body.

    The world has change all the time. You have to adjust yourself follow changing.


    Miss Kittikanya Chimpoonsub
    ID 5031006212 Sec.5

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  45. Actually, I hane many friends who are homosexaul, but I don't have any transgendered friends.

    I see many ladyboys who changed their sex to be girls. I think they are really beautiful, and I admire them. They have a lot of ability to entertain people.

    I think I can stay with them in this society because the are human being like us. They change their gender jusst because they do not satisfied their real gender.

    Sometime, i may feel strange but I think I can live with them if I have to. It depends on how good they are. If they are good people, I definately can live with them.


    Ms.Chulalak Kanchat
    5031006014
    Section 1

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  46. I also have many transgendered friends, who are really close to me. We always spend our time together. I really love them, but I still have one thing in my mind.

    As I told you, we can share our sad and happiness. Many times we cry, smile, or scream together. However, all of that time we spend together doesn’t eliminate my badly emotion. In the past, I try so hard to hug or kiss them like normal girls. I realize that they have everything like me, but I can’t. But now, one more important thing is our friends. This word can answer every question. It makes me open my mind. They are my dear friends today, tomorrow, and forever.

    As you said, “I have no objection to any transgendered person”. I think so. I don’t have any prejudice about transgendered friends. On the other hand, I am really pleased with them because most of transgendered person have a wonderful talent. Then have a great thing that the normal don’t have. They can shine on the stage as they are in the star racing. They can hypnotize our sight with their illusion magic. They are more than everything that we can imagine. I really love them.

    I know, not everyone can accept them. But please! ; open your mind. You’ll see marvelous friends stay beside you.



    Miss Narinrak Loungon
    ID: 5031006037
    Section: 01

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  47. I have many transgender friends since primary school. I think transgender is a vivid gender. They can make other people feel fun and happy with the colorful lives. I can share many things with my friends who are transgender because they are forthright persons and they always tell me the truth.

    However, I know that they always tell me the trust because they are my friend. If they are not my friends, they might not always tell me the truth because every gender have both good and bad person. In my point of view, some transgender are snappish persons and they immediately angry if some people offend them. This is one thing that makes me scare some transgender. By usually, I can be friend with transgender but I might scare them at first if I do not know them.


    I believe that everyone can be friend although we are different. ^o^

    Miss Saowarat Sowa
    ID: 5031006100 Section: 3

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  49. Usually, I have a lot of transgenders friends because I complete from single sex school. Therefore, I was accustomed to them very well.

    Mostly, I spend a lot of time to close with them because they fulfill my life to be more colorful. I see many lady-boys including my friends change their sex and they are more beautiful than women. More important, they are friendly like the same.

    To my mind, I can accept these people because they are human who can do anything like us, is equal. In addition, they also have the charisma in creation. Generally, we can see that there are a lot of transgenders who are designers.

    I accept that transgenders can be the best friend in my life because they are sincere to their friends.

    I know that our society cannot accept them because people still are narrowed-mind. If you open your mind, you will see many good sides of them.

    Miss Saowalak Limtermsub
    ID 5031006101
    section 3

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  50. :-)
    Since our world is more opened right now and medical process is more advanced, the number of transgendered people keep increasing. People can accept others' differences rather than before.

    I don't have any transgendered friends except homosexual ones.
    Nevertheless, if I have any transgendered ones, I still don't deny to call them my friends. Obviously seen, a lot of men have transgendered to be women. I think those can make me happy because they know how to do the same thing like me, as a woman does. They have modified both body and mind so they can feel the way I feel. Frequently, they are even more sensitive than me.

    Certainly, we are able to share this world. We're friends.

    However, this kind of friend also makes me hopeless. Once we accept them to easily be a part of our world, we as women also lack of chance to have the real guys being with us.

    What a pity!!T^T

    By the way, I still would love to have friends even the transgendered ones as long as they are good persons. As far as we can make this world delightful to live in.

    Miss Kanokwan Sritan
    ID: 503 1006 001
    Section 01

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  51. In the preseent, I think it's a open society. They can be my friend.

    I have some transgender's friends which they are very nuce for me. My friends always help me in everythind and I think they are better than some people who are normal people.

    Moreover, transgender people are not wrong but They just are wrong that They cannot choose to born to be the gender that they want


    Miss Kulawadee Phunthana
    ID: 503 1006 008
    Section:01

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  52. I always feel like this, maybe for everyone. I don't know how can I start to share with them. Sometime I just want to disappears from this world because I don't want to feel uncomfortable with another effect.

    I hate all the time that I walk on everywhere and another thinking of them were running through my head.

    Why?.. maybe I'm mad.

    Anyway I know this mad not because of them but me. It is the effect that will happened when you feel so sorrow and grief with your life. When you don't know how can escape from the dark silence in your mind.

    I'm afraid.



    Kasitinart O-satanon
    5031006130
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  53. I have some transgendered friends.

    They are really good at in many activities more than girl and boy. One of my transgendered friends always makes me surprise. He wins everything that he wants. He is good at in academic subject, arts, sport. Moreover, he is really good looking!
    There are many girls try to flirt him, but he always bawl them out.

    I think he looks like a giant bear when he dresses as a girl.

    The defect is he always sensitive. It causes boring.

    Many times, I think he is a man even he try to squeeze his voice to be high

    Miss Kanyapat Khanthasen
    ID : 5031006027 Sec.1

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  54. I have never had transgendered friends or someone close to me. However, I think I can accept transgendered person to be my friend, but may not be my close friend.

    I think the basic attitude between male and female are different. Although, transgendered person has every part of body like women, transgendered person still has the basic attitude like her gender.

    It is hardly to find anyone that can talk with in every subject.

    I believe nobody understand me everything, even me. Sometime I can not understand myself.

    Therefore, if you chick with someone, don’t falter to continue your relationship with she or he because you may not found anyone that you click anymore.


    Aj.Supin kha, I meet troubles but I can not see anyone that I can talk with. It is very bad that I have to cry alone. I’m crying. Hurr!!


    MissTreerat Lertouran
    ID: 503 1006 030 Sec.01

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  55. I have a few friends who transgendered person. However, i didn't close to them enough so i liked to odserve there behavior. Somebody exhibit themselves like 'yes, I am homosexual' that I think is a good way because you should to admit youselves better than cover up.

    Nowadays,many Thai people accept person who transgendered more than the past. In this point, I can accapt them as well due to human should have equal right. The trangendered people should to get commitment same like normal people. Nevertheless,they are human like us.

    Ms Noppanat Ruangsri
    ID 5031006036
    Sec 1

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  56. Actually, I have many transgender friends. I can accept them because they are same as other people.

    I understand your feeling. I think if you learn more about them, you will feel easy to stay with her in a room.

    Nowadays, we accept transgender person more than the past. They are human who want to be themselves like other people. Although, some people cannot accept them but I think if we see in their mind, we will understand that transgender persons do not different from male or female gender.

    Finally, we can be friends although we are different gender.


    Arpa Sriwesutthilak
    5031006204
    Section: 05

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  58. I do not have friends or anybody I know who is transgendered; some of my friends are more like homosexual. I think it is acceptable for me if some of my friends is transgendered because you can see that there are a lot of third gender in Thai society. Though sometimes having third gender is annoying, I am always unable to decide whether I should like some guy or not because at times it is difficult to tell if they are gay or straight.

    However, having transgendered friend would be weird for me if I have seen that person many yeras before they did the surgery. I mean it would be very difficult to ramind yourself that this person is on longer the same, especially for the guy. Is your friend used to be a guy before? I am curious :)

    This makes me think that even though people are more open about third gender and transgender at the present, it seems to me that a lot of people try to change themselves into another gender as it is some kind of fashion. For example, one of my friends was straight when he first got here at the university and then two years later he told everybody that he is gay. I do not know whether he just found who he really was or he changed because the surrounding.

    Personally, I strongly believe that we should not change our gender into another one just because others do. We should sit and ask ourselves deeply who we really are.


    Peerada Hongto
    ID 503-1006-013
    Section 01

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  59. In the past, I had some transgendered friends in my group,

    and I felt uncomfortable like you when I was alone with them.

    I don't know why I feel like this.

    However, when I am with them and other friends who are male oe female, I feel happy to listen thier conversation and enjoyed so much.

    I think I don't mind to be with them, but I may be familiar with them
    because I have never had friend until I was at hi-school.

    Now, I'm not sure that my feeling in the past is still in my mind or not because in our group, we have only male or female.



    Sirinun Kanokthaworntham
    5031006093
    Section3

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  60. I have many transgendered friends. Also the one of them is my best friend. The boy whose mine likes a girl.

    He has known that he was not like any boy when he was in a primary school.

    He did not like the boy’s activities; playing
    football, acting like a police or using the gun but he enjoyed playing with the girls, acting like a supermodel and collecting the ‘Barbie.’

    I think he is a pity boy; he is the only child whom his parents do not know what he is.

    However, the secret is like the smoke that can not hide. He is a cheerleader at the famous university in Bangkok. Twenty secret years is revealing. His parents are very upset and worry about him too much. Also, they ask him to choose the right and appropriate way to walk. That makes he confuses and wants the one who understand and talk with. I’m very thankful that he thinks about me.

    We always feel free to share ideas and feelings for each other. I like his interesting ideas and good advices to me.

    He does not know what the future will be, he must choose the right way to walk by himself, and I totally believe that.

    Even though many people do not understand him, I am the one who want to share feeling and be a good friend forever.

    Everything on this world is changed on the time. Why the man can not changed to woman. Everyone has to the right to do what they want. I understand what they feel.

    Everything is uncertain.


    Alisa Inkaew
    5031006108
    Section 3

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  61. TOPIC CLOSED. Thank you for joining.
    Please proceed to the last topic of our journal na kah.

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  62. It's not wonder that why transgendered are increasing in globalization. People have a confidence to do things as they wish and people can also accepted transgendered more than before.

    I have a close friend, surely that he is a transgendred (gay). He is very handsome, confidence,talkative,friendly, and clever. When Valentine's Day come, there are many little girls gave him anything’s. He said thank you for them but it's not special.

    Although he is not a real man, Because of He is not a real man!!!. Thus he can choose or suggest something that suitable or make sense more than girls. When I need to go shopping or change my hair style or even I feel bad, he always take care of me, give a good advices and make it easy.

    The important thing that I surely to say he is a good friend, he is very grateful. Every morning, he always helps his parents before come to school while many people ask for money from their parents. He usually told me that he is poor, so he should hard working and help his parents.

    I think, I'm lucky that I found someone who still lives in positive way though he is a transgendered. He does not care what he be, he still happy for his life.

    "No one can choose to born but they can choose to be" is the good thing but grateful to parents is the best thing no matter what your gender you are.



    "วันนี้คุณบอกรัก พ่อ-แม่หรือยังคะ??" ^^



    Thanakul Bung-ngen
    Id. 4931006023
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  63. In the real world, no one is able to stand alone I believe. To me, I have many transgendered friends and I get used to them well. I just think they are my friends. They are human-being like me. Of course, they have feelings, minds, and needs like me too. I never ask them for theirs reasons why they would like to be a transgendered because I always trust in them. Everyone has reasons to do something, right? I don’t know what you were thinking at that time, teacher. For me, I feel very comfortable when I stayed with friends no matter what theirs genders are.

    I just tell myself that we are friends and we can share all things together. Sometimes, it is hard to accept or to stay with but just relax and be your own self as much as you can. I think it is a good idea for making friends.

    May be you think she or he is not a real woman, don’t you? I think it is not the big deal to focus but heart of friendship is HEART.

    H = Hear without saying a word
    E = Embrace each other
    A = Amaranth
    R = Raise up
    T = Timeless to keep in touch

    The definitions above are my own thought; please be yourself and feel comfortable with friends.

    Miss Sudarath Khemklad
    ID: 5031006191
    Section: 03

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  64. I have many trangender friends. They always give me a laugh and made me happy in time. Like now, i have to trangender friends names Pingan and Tunk. Pingan always tell the jokes and make everyone laughing, i just wonder that where g=he get more powerful like that. He is very smart talkative and friendly.He is some kind of superhero. Another is Tunk, He is very cute, smart and gender. He is always be nice for evevry one and he had some little place for live alone. This to friens were my best friend that i ever had, whatever that we call best friend or close friend that means we already choose someone to share the story and life. It's seem like no reason to take care, no action to response and no rules to follow. We can reached just trust and perfect smile to give to each other and spend most of the time together that the way we are.

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  65. Yes i have some of friend like them. I can accep all of them to share with our world. It's alright for me if we have to spent sometime together or even to stay alone with them inside room. In fact, they are sick person. The transgendered is human. They can have normal life like us. Actually, Many of them have high emagination and inspiration to create many possible things in good way. Many famous person show up themselve that they are transgendered. Finally I judge the bad or good of person from behavior not from the physical problem of human.

    Miss Sujaree Wisatnakorn
    ID 5031006094
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  66. I used to have a transgender close friend when I was in junior high school.

    He was a nice guy. He liked to tease me and make me laugh. He always had joke to tell me while I was dull. He always took care of me also my girl friends about homework. He is really responsibility on every task he got. He is good at math and physic subjects so he always helped me. Moreover, he is good at cooking too (^@^).
    At first sight I saw him, he was so manly. I could not believe that he was going to be transgender. I was a little sad when he showed his truly appearance. I thought he was so brave. You know, He never presented any feeling to the guy in our class but he usually hanged out with my friends and me. I like him and I accept whatever he is because he is a friend of mine. I am really glad that once I knew him.

    Let’s cook together next time. (^@^)

    Sutachinee Wongsahai
    ID 5031006194 Sect. 05

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