A lot of people believe we should be honest and frank to each other, especially in relationship. I wonder if that belief also means we have to tell people everything. Yeah, I mean the whole things concerning the matter we're engaging in. If yes, then does this have anything to do with occasions when people say half of the story and keep the rest for they find it's better to leave some parts out?
There' re times when I don't even know what a person really means. When that happens, I always get frustrated and occupied with the thought of our prior conversations for the rest of the day. I hate it for I will keep guessing and yet can't assume it is what I've guessed.
And if it's done with the idea that it's better to reveal only some parts of the story, is it also possible that 'better' means 'more fun' for the person to leave something in the mist?
If it's you, do you or will you reveal parts of something and keep the rest? How would you feel if someone do that to you?
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ReplyDeleteI think it depends on the situation or what that story is about. Some situation, i cannot tell everything to the other even my family. i don't want to make other people feel bad with me and I don't want to keep the rest because i am malevolent. I think if they don't know the whole story, it may be better.
ReplyDeleteand How would i feel if someone do that to me?
I will think does it make the bad results to me? May be, other people do it because they are well intentioned. If they do it because they do not well intentioned to me, i must beware that people.
Each people has the deferent think. Some people think it's good but some people cannot accept it. I think try to be a good person and the other people will give the good things to us.
Korawit Intarat 5031006005 section 1
English saying says that: honest is the best policy. But in the really world, we do not practice this. For we always have our reason: for making a good impression for someone or keeping something for you or just a write line. I have the experience when people do not tell mw the whole thing I rather not know anything if I can only know a part of it. I also guess and wondering why people do not tell us everything. That makes fell not god for as a friend you should not treat friend in this way. Therefore I would like to say just say it never line because when people find out the truth later we are more embarrassing.
ReplyDeleteHonestly speaking I also do that for my friend, for example if it is about the things between my girl friend for some part I will keep the secret. I can not tell every part to my friend. Even I did this to my friend but I do not aspect my friend do this to me I want to know everything if they tell me some part of the story. See, this is contradiction.
Lao zi says that: do not give the thing to others if you do not want it. I think we should share what we have and exchange for what our friends have.
David 5031205108 set 5
I think it is always good to be honest and frank with each other in the relationship because you should not keep any secret to the person you are having a relationship with. I mean, how can you trust someone if he or she does not tell you everything. You are not God, you cannot know anything at any time you want. It is frustrated for not knowing important things you should know or things that can split two people in the relationship which should be told so you can solve them. I think if that person cannot tell you something very important or something they should tell you, they might get used to it as a habit. Eventually, they will lie to you.
ReplyDeleteSometimes, you have a problem and you think you are the only person who has to deal with it. No one else can help you, even the one you love. You get so frustrated and you feel lonely because you do not know what you should do. People around you can actually help. You might feel like the situation you are facing is not an appropriate thing or the others should not know about it. People who love you will not blame you for what you did; in stead, they stand by you and help you get through it. Believe me, I had experienced it once. I did not think I should let anybody knew about what I had done. It was like my dark secret that I should keep to myself. I thought I would be ok if the time went by, but I was wrong. I was suffered as if I was living in hell. I could not be a happy girl who always laughs so hard till she cries like I used to be. After my friends knew what happened and they helped me through the bad times, it actually worked. I was completely healed and back to normal.
I think sometimes I reveal just some parts of the story too. However, my reason in doing it is I want to protect somebody or do not want to hurt people’ feelings. It is better to leave some parts because our words or the truth can hurt others when we do not mean to or want to hurt them, not because it is a fun thing to do. If someone does this to me, I probably will not be angry but try to find out the reason why he or she does it. Or I could just forget it. There is no need to force people to tell you something they do not want to because no matter what you do they will not say anything. When they want to tell you about it, they speak out.
Peerada Hongto
ID 503-1006-013
Section 01
I cannot say I do not like or not for that person did because sometimes, when I said something with my close friend I cannot said everything. If the story that I will said, it affect me, maybe my friend hate me because I did bad thing. For the reason that I told some parts of story to someone because when my story was said, I was relaxed, and I want to that person listen me only. I do not know why but I like it. I think if a person told half of the story with me, and I must guess that story. I must angry, and unhappy if it occurs with me because I want to know whole thing of story. I do not like guessing about a story that I cannot know answer.
ReplyDeleteMiss Kornkanok Nonthanum
ID. 5031006004 Section 1
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ReplyDeleteI think to be honest is the good thing. It's the charactic that people, all of us, should have. In your case, I think to tell some parts of the story and then leave us solely to find the answer is still honesty. It is O.K. if it is the truth because truth still remains truth.
ReplyDeleteHowever, sometimes you have right to get frustrated too if that story is really significant to you. I think I will get frustrated as well when I encounter something like that. Just think about it if you are a news reporter, you have to interview someone's hot topic, then he/she answer you a half of the story and leaves you the question mark or mystery, I'm sure that you may dislike it.
Nowadays, we can't really know who is honest or not. I think it needs in our society. The politicians are using mind guessing game and it ruins our country and society a lot. They must have honesty and be example for the people but why does it turn upside-down like this?
Mr. Prat Malarat
5031006046 Section 1
I think, I will reveal the parts of story if it can make someone feel better.
ReplyDeleteI feel uncomfortable if there is someone to reveal the parts of story for me because it not show the whole things and I can't find the way to solve the problem. Moreover, it can make me confused. If you want to reveal the story so you have to reveal the whole parts because nobody can assume the real whole parts correctly. A lot of people hate to assume or guessed the unknown story so we should be honest and sincere to each other.
However, its depend on the situation. The thing that you should to do is tell or reveal some or whole parts to someone if it can make them better. Conversely, the thing that you should not to do is tell or reveal some or whole parts to someone if it can make them feel bad.
You have to think before you do something because it can be influences with each other who recieve the reveal parts of the story from you.
Nobody like mind guessing game, are you?
Miss Sasikarn Srinoraphan
ID: 5031006504 Section 05
Well, I think it depends on the distance between two people. If that distance is not equal, it is really hard to speak or tell every thing truth. I mean if I really trust in one person without the suspicion but that person doesn’t think same as me, so that person won’t tell the secret or the important thing to me while I do the opposite side.
ReplyDeleteMoreover, another important thing is the reason. Sometime we have the reason to do or don’t do everything. As same as another person, they will have their own reason to tell or don’t tell it to me. And I think when we walk into the appropriate time or when that person ready he will tell me that entire things.
So, if someone do that to me, I will be quiet and try to guess. Many times I have to stay in the guessing game but I like it even though it makes me crazy or mad.
Ms. Narinrak Loungon
ID: 5031006037
Section: 01
In my opinion, I think that sincere and honest is very importance for relationship between family and close friend. However,it dosen't mean you must tell everything, you just only tell almost things that more than each other or stranger.
ReplyDeleteFrom my experince, mind guessing game are have both of bad things and good things. Sometimes, I feel fun when I must guess or predict stranger or new friends from gesture. In the other hand, I was learned to exhibited in the other side of my emotion for decrese conflicts between each other. Nevertheless, I always feel annoyed when people have uncommon gusture with me. I want to know and wonder in sometimes,but I don' t care too much due to it makes me unhappy when I was occupied.
You should not annoy with each other gesture, you should be confident that is better!
MissNoppanat Ruangsri
ID 5031006036 section 1
If it's you, do you or will you reveal parts of something and keep the rest? How would you feel if someone do that to you?
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on the person that we talk to. I can say that I'm sincere person but I'm sincere for people who sincere to me only. From my experience, I used to have bad relationship with one person from high school and she was my close friend. She alway tell her story to each other that what she do but she alway keep some part of story. She usually seems like she is a very nice person but I can discern from her eye and her speech that she is fake. Although, My friends and I know her bad behavior that she alway keep it secretly. We still friend but one year later after we continue to study in university. We began lose our relationship and she annouce my story to other person and gossip to me in the bad way. However, the best way to solve this problem for me is cut off our relationship quickly. This is one case of my experience cause from mind guessing game. The honest and sincere is the best way to keep relationship between person I think.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Miss Noppanat that you should not annoy with each other gesture, you should be confident that is better!
Miss Nawakan Thai-aur
5031006038
section 01
I think it depends on the story and person whom I talk to. If that person is my parents, I'll tell them everything I have to. I don't like to guess that much, but sometimes guessing is juicy! In addition, I think being honest to each other is an important thing everyone should have. In my opinion, being honest and telling everything is totally different. Being honest is to tell the truth while telling everything is to tell everything you know, hear, see, touch, or smell which sometimes you don’t have to. Especially if you are in relationship, being honest to each other is crucial. You can’t stay together if you lie to each other.
ReplyDeleteHowever, you have to think carefully before you do or say something out loud. Sometimes being too frank can destroy your relationship. Most people like to hear sweet things.
If one of my friends say half of the story and leave something in the mist, I’ll try to guess. If my guesses are wrong, I’ll keep guessing for a few times. If I’m still got it wrong, I’ll stop guessing and leave it like that. I think someday she will tell me by herself, but if she won’t, it’s fine. I might feel bad, but not that bad. I think everyone has reason when they do something, so it’s their rights to talk or keep it with them.
Miss Slin Tiyapongpitak
ID: 5031006503
Section: 5
I think it depend on reason of each person.
ReplyDeleteFrank and honest, for me, doesn't mean you should tell everything to other. If all of people tell everything, the word " mystery" maybe doesn't occur in language, right?. Everything has their own beautiful charecteristic including mystery. The mystery makes quessing occurred in order to find answer. You should think positive to persons who say a half of story, do not feel bad with them. Because maybe guessing people mind is challenge, you are studying what people are thinking, use your mind and sense guessing, and the answer is available as itself. I think everybody has ever said a half of story for other person, so thinking that if you were them and what is the real meaning that you want to,then you will recieve the best answer by yourself. For honest, I think it is a goog thing, especiall honest to your mind. No matter what you do or thinking, you realize by youself that it's true or not. Be confident the thing you have done is good for your own and other people.
I don't mind if people are playing mind guessing game for me.. I think it is better than do nothing.
Ms. Theeranan Sriphumin
ID: 5031006034 Section1
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ReplyDeleteps: firumu--that's not a jounal. it's you who have to learn what it means by keeping or writing a journal.
I believe that it depends on the situaton of each person that we should tell the whole story or not. Some people would decide to tell some part and keep the rest in mind because they don't want to let others down.
ReplyDeleteFor me, if it is better to not tell the truth of the whole story, I would keep some part it in my mind but I will not tell the lie because I hate lying. If someone asks me then I shall reveal, but if no one asks, there is no need to tell everything.
It is fine that if someone plays this game with me. I will see in the positive way that person do this because he/she does not want to let me feel bad. However, I would ask for the truth first. He/she will tell the whole story or not, it is his/her decision.
Suttinee Jamniyom
ID:5031006095
Section 03